"You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person who you cannot live without."

Fridays at the Joy Project will be about celebrating all that is beautiful about marriage. Mark Twain once said about Adam that he decided it was better to live out of the garden with Eve than in it without her. Do you love your husband like that? Do you tell him? Do you show him?

Marriage is hard work. You can't change another person and bend them to your will. But, you can work on changing yourself to become a better spouse. Giving is joy. Serving your spouse is joy.

I sent my husband a quote today that said I wanted a wedding that was beautiful, elaborate and filled with family and friends...he wanted a wedding that would make me his wife.

That is the kind of man he is and I am grateful for that. Fridays are about showing your spouse that he is the one person you can't live without, forsaking all others, including friends and family if they hinder your marriage.

What kindness can you show your spouse today?